{"id":650,"date":"2012-02-02T05:47:59","date_gmt":"2012-02-02T10:47:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/facilitativeleadership.wordpress.com\/?p=650"},"modified":"2026-05-01T15:35:59","modified_gmt":"2026-05-01T19:35:59","slug":"facilitate-meaning","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mgrush.com\/blog\/facilitate-meaning\/","title":{"rendered":"Facilitate Meaning and Intent, Not Words"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">One of the toughest tasks of a facilitator is to relinquish judgment and fully seek the intent behind the terms used in meetings. Therefore, facilitate meaning, not words. Structured workshops support the information revolution (as opposed to the 20th-century\u00a0industrial revolution). Therefore, remind participants that their\u00a0words provide instruments supporting the meaning being conveyed.<\/span><\/h2>\n<div id=\"attachment_651\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-651\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-651\" title=\"Screen Shot 2012-01-23 at 11.46.01 AM\" src=\"https:\/\/mgrush.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/screen-shot-2012-01-23-at-11-46-01-am.png?w=300\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"231\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mgrush.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/screen-shot-2012-01-23-at-11-46-01-am.png 748w, https:\/\/mgrush.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/screen-shot-2012-01-23-at-11-46-01-am-300x231.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-651\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Facilitate Meaning, Not Words<\/strong><\/span><\/p><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">The term &#8216;in-formation&#8217; implies a sense of journey, rather than destination. Participants supporting in-formation technology discover that deliverables are transitory. The question is not whether a guiding principle or assumption will change, only when it changes\u2014or perhaps more accurately, how quickly the change will occur since change is continuous. Therefore it behooves us to fully understand and facilitate the meaning behind the words being used.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"page\" title=\"Page 49\">\n<div class=\"layoutArea\">\n<div class=\"column\">\n<div class=\"page\" title=\"Page 49\">\n<div class=\"layoutArea\">\n<div class=\"column\">\n<h3><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">FACILITATE MEANING AND INTENT, NOT WORDS<\/span><\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Meeting participants most frequently express and<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> extract meaning from the world of words<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">, which I refer to as \u201cnarrative.\u201d Five common techniques, including narrative, express intent and meaning:<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Narrative<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Nonverbal<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Illustrative<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Iconic (symbols)<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Numeric<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<h4><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">1. NARRATIVE<\/span><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Oral and written (narrative) rhetoric relies on words, the primary means of communicating in meetings. However, non-narrative methods may be equally effective and sometimes preferred, especially when explaining complex topics and issues.<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">2. NONVERBAL<\/span><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Substantial information during meetings transfers through body signals, openness (or closeness), shifting eyebrows, frowns of disapproval grins of approval, and the like. Hand gestures help explain the passion and intensity <\/span><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">behind some meeting participants\u2019 claims, along with cadence, tone, and other para-verbal traits.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"page\" title=\"Page 50\">\n<div class=\"layoutArea\">\n<div class=\"column\">\n<h4><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">3. ILLUSTRATIVE<\/span><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Drawings, illustrations, and pictures reflect intent and meaning and are particularly effective in explaining complex relationships. Pictures of birds provide a much clearer understanding of birds than using words alone. Likewise, process flow and value stream diagrams may provide quick overviews more effectively and efficiently than verbal explanations.<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">4. ICONIC (OR SYMBOLIC)<\/span><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Icons and symbols extend intent and meaning. Many icons are now universally acceptable and leapfrog the challenges associated with language challenges. Street signs, restroom symbols, and public transportation indicators do not leave much room for confusion or misunderstanding (take the stop sign, for example).<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">5. NUMERIC<\/span><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Scorecards, spreadsheets, and other weighted ranking systems should be familiar. Additionally, I built my Quantitative TO-WS Analysis to describe the Current Situation numerically, thus avoiding some of the emotion and passion that can bog people down in searching for the right words. By using numbers instead of words, participants strive to understand in addition to trying to be understood.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">OTHER TECHNIQUES<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Dance, movies, music, storytelling, and other formats also communicate intent and meaning. Most of us, however, rarely employ other formats for expressing our intent when we are working with business groups.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Therefore, always be willing to challenge participants to make their thinking visible.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&#8220;Great minds like a think.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Strive to help your speaker or participants to more fully explain the meaning behind the terms they use. Words rarely capture all of the intended meaning. However, additional challenge and facilitation improves robust understanding, making it easier to build valid and sustaining consensus.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Whether you are most familiar with the \u201cFive Whys\u201d or the inquisitive five-year-old, ask for proof, evidence, examples, and options to fortify participants\u2019 thinking and their supporting arguments. Challenge adjectives and adverbs, such as &#8216;quick&#8217; or &#8216;quality&#8217;. Ask about their meaning and intent. An excellent follow-up question is \u201cWhat is the unit of measurement for <span style=\"color: #999999;\"><em>insert adjective or adverb<\/em><\/span>______?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Many languages serve to build consensus, not simply English. True and valid consensus is not only an English term(s), rather it is also the meaning the participants intend to convey. The elusive nature of meaning was captured by Hafez (aka Hafiz) when he penned centuries ago:<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">If you think that the Truth can be known<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">From words,<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">If you think that the Sun and the Ocean<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Can pass through that tiny opening called the mouth.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">O someone should start laughing!<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Someone should start wildly laughing\u2014<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Now!<\/span><\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000; font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>______<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Don\u2019t ruin your career by hosting <a href=\"https:\/\/mgrush.com\/blog\/bad-meetings\/\">bad meetings<\/a>. Sign up for a <a href=\"https:\/\/mgrush.com\/public-facilitation-training\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">workshop<\/a> or send this to someone who should. <em><a href=\"https:\/\/web.archive.org\/web\/20260106090117\/https:\/\/mgrush.com\/\">MGR<span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">USH<\/span><\/a><\/em> workshops focus on meeting design and practice. Each person practices tools, methods, and activities every day during the week. Therefore, while some call this immersion, we call it the road to building high-value facilitation skills.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of the toughest tasks of a facilitator is to relinquish judgment and fully seek the intent behind the terms used in meetings. Therefore, facilitate meaning, not words. Structured workshops support the information revolution (as opposed to the 20th-century\u00a0industrial revolution). 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