{"id":204,"date":"2011-06-02T02:22:50","date_gmt":"2011-06-02T06:22:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/facilitativeleadership.wordpress.com\/?p=204"},"modified":"2026-05-01T15:37:17","modified_gmt":"2026-05-01T19:37:17","slug":"change-or-die","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mgrush.com\/blog\/change-or-die\/","title":{"rendered":"Change or Die \u2014\u201cIt is NOT the strongest of the species that survives . . ."},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>Change or die? Most people do not change their minds\u2014rather, they make a new decision based on new information.\u00a0 Sometimes the things they look at change as well.<\/h2>\n<div id=\"attachment_3415\" style=\"width: 436px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Change-Die-Business-Process-Improvement-ebook\/dp\/B00BC9MZ3I\"><img wpfc-lazyload-disable=\"true\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3415\" class=\"wp-image-3415 size-full\" title=\"Screen shot 2011-05-31 at 4.25.43 PM\" src=\"https:\/\/mgrush.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/change-or-die-copy.jpg\" alt=\"Change or Die, The Business Process Improvement Manual\" width=\"426\" height=\"640\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mgrush.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/change-or-die-copy.jpg 426w, https:\/\/mgrush.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/change-or-die-copy-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 426px) 100vw, 426px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-3415\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Change or Die, The Business Process Improvement Manual<\/span><\/strong><\/p><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><em>Every morning a gazelle wakes up.\u00a0It knows it must run faster\u00a0than the fastest lion<\/em><em> or it will be killed.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><em>Every morning a lion wakes up.\u00a0It knows it must outrun\u00a0the slowest gazelle<\/em><em> or it will starve to death.\u00a0<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><em>It doesn&#8217;t matter whether you are a lion or a gazelle<\/em><em> when the sun comes up . . .<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><em><strong>. . . you&#8217;d better be running.<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"color: #666699;\">Source:\u00a0 Unknown<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Change or Die &#8211;\u00a0Darwin<\/h3>\n<p>C<span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">hange is stimulated by decisions. Groups make higher quality decisions than the smartest person in the group because groups create more options. Any group or individual presented with more options is known to make higher-quality decisions.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Most change is incremental or evolutionary rather than revolutionary.\u00a0 Yet, by harnessing one degree Fahrenheit, steam power ushered in the industrial revolution.\u00a0 Today\u2019s revolution is both digital and dynamic, it is \u201cin-formation\u201d. With anything in formation, change is inevitable, only growth is optional.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">\u201cIt is NOT the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent, but the one most responsive to change.\u201d \u00a0\u00a0\u2014 Charles Darwin<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h3>Change or Die &#8211;\u00a0The Tao<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Some of the best books about facilitating change do not mention the term or role of a &#8220;facilitator&#8221;. Take Dr <a class=\"zem_slink\" title=\"Wayne Dyer\" href=\"http:\/\/www.drwaynedyer.com\/\" rel=\"homepage\">Wayne Dyer<\/a>&#8216;s book for example, &#8220;<a class=\"zem_slink\" title=\"Change Your Thoughts\" href=\"http:\/\/www.stevenaitchison.co.uk\/\" rel=\"homepage\">Change Your Thoughts<\/a>, Change Your Life.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">We have always argued that effective facilitation begins with clear thinking, and that unclear speaking or imprecise writing is indicative of unclear thinking.\u00a0 Dr. Dyer&#8217;s transliteration of &#8220;The Tao&#8221;, is also called &#8220;Living the Wisdom of the Tao.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">The 17th verse begins and completes as follows:<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_546\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/mgrush.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/12\/screen-shot-2011-12-09-at-10-21-58-am.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-546\" class=\"wp-image-546 size-medium\" title=\"Screen Shot 2011-12-09 at 10.21.58 AM\" src=\"https:\/\/mgrush.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/12\/screen-shot-2011-12-09-at-10-21-58-am.png?w=300\" alt=\"Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mgrush.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/12\/screen-shot-2011-12-09-at-10-21-58-am.png 498w, https:\/\/mgrush.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/12\/screen-shot-2011-12-09-at-10-21-58-am-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/mgrush.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/12\/screen-shot-2011-12-09-at-10-21-58-am-300x300.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-546\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life<\/strong><\/span><\/p><\/div>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">With the greatest leader above them,<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">people barely know one exists . . .<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">\u00a0. . . The great leader speaks little,<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">He never speaks carelessly.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">He works without self-interest<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">and leaves no trace.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">When all is finished, the people say,<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&#8220;We did it ourselves.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h3>Change or Die &#8211;\u00a0Being Facilitative<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">One can easily substitute the term facilitator for a leader or include the adjective &#8220;facilitative&#8221; in front of the term, as in &#8220;facilitative leader.&#8221;\u00a0 Modern, facilitative leaders create an environment that is conducive to productivity, where all of the meeting participants feel that they have a personal responsibility to contribute and own the outputs, and the deliverables.\u00a0 Clear learnings that we can import from Dr. Dyer&#8217;s treatment of the 17th verse also include:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Facilitators create an environment that helps everyone act responsibly.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Effective facilitators are able to make themselves invisible when the group reaches high-performance mode. Although most groups do not reach this level, when they do, the facilitator becomes a scribe.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">When it is time for accolades, facilitators dissolve in the background, wanting the participants to feel that their accomplishments derive from their own talents.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Instead of believing that they know what is best for a group, they trust the group participants and the method to generate what is best for them.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">The surest way to gain the trust and confidence of participants is to allow them to make as many decisions as possible. Avoid grabbing the low-hanging fruit by answering simple content. Put even the simplest items in the form of a question.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Try being more neutral as a business agent, friend, spouse, family member, parent, etc. and be surprised by the results of people who will live up to their own answers.\u00a0 Remember, there is usually more than one correct answer, the real question remains the taste for risk and reward.<\/span><\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000; font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>______<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Don\u2019t ruin your career by hosting <a href=\"https:\/\/mgrush.com\/blog\/bad-meetings\/\">bad meetings<\/a>. Sign up for a <a href=\"https:\/\/mgrush.com\/public-facilitation-training\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">workshop<\/a> or send this to someone who should. <em><a href=\"https:\/\/web.archive.org\/web\/20260106090117\/https:\/\/mgrush.com\/\">MGR<span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">USH<\/span><\/a><\/em> workshops focus on meeting design and practice. Each person practices tools, methods, and activities every day during the week. Therefore, while some call this immersion, we call it the road to building high-value facilitation skills.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Change or die? Most people do not change their minds\u2014rather, they make a new decision based on new information.\u00a0 Sometimes the things they look at change as well. Every morning a gazelle wakes up.\u00a0It knows it must run faster\u00a0than the fastest lion or it will be killed. 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